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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - if he hasn’t left already. Ask him to leave. Do not beg or plead in front of him.  If nothing else keep your dignity. Insist DH tell your child he is leaving and their will be two homes.  DH knew your family when he married you and when you had a child. You don’t make him visit.  The “no joy in the marriage” is BS and does sound like an affair or a mid-life crisis. Either way, it takes two in a marriage and DH has decided to quit rather than work with you to find joy.  Hold your head high and live the best life you can.[/quote]

Ignore this poster.  This is exactly what you should not do.  It starts the divide b/w you and your DH that you are forcing your kids to know it is DH’s fault.  Plenty of blame to go around - no need to start poisoning the kids.  If your advice is followers then OP needs to make sure her kids know what she did wrong to drive their dad away.

The communication to the kids needs to be a united front and all they need to know is that mommy and daddy have agreed to live separately, etc.

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