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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I know I need to leave. I can’t move on for some reason. I am in therapy but it doesn’t seem to be helping. :( I love him and can’t let go. [/quote]

This isn't love. You need to move on. Life will be hell in this relationship. Only you can help yourself. [/quote]

OP, you’re over-thinking this.  I know, I have been in your shoes.  All it takes to end things is to say it’s over and to walk out.  It’s that simple.  You don’t need a therapist to help you leave. (Frankly you are better off spending therapy money on a divorce lawyer at this point.) You can love him and still leave him.  All it takes is walking out the door.  Of course, you can plan a little first and pack a bag, take your name off key accounts and copy key documents and then walk out the door and things will go a little better for you.

Stop engaging him.  You can’t make him do anything he doesn’t want to do already. Stop listening to his words and listen only to his consistent behaviors. Those are telling you it is time to leave.

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