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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here is what I don’t understand about all of these redshirting threads. People that believe that 1 extra year can be good for their kids because it will give them more time to mature, will hold their summer kids one year. Those that believe that redshirting is bad, will make kids bored, that is so bad to have An 18-19 year old in high school, will not redshirt. 
There are so many decisions that we make for our kids (always what we believe is in their best interests). Are you raising your kids believeing in God, Santa, etc? Are you teaching them math and reading at 4 or waiting until they are in elementary school? We all have different beliefs on what is best for our own (specific) kid. Why do people care so much what other people do? Are the antiredshirted (that believe that redshirting will be a negative for the older kids) so invested in otherwise kids’ lives that worry so much about their parents making the wrong decision?
Now, if you (anti-redshirter) think that redshirting is actually good for those kids, but you can’t afford it for your own, then I see why this may be upsetting... but in his case redshirting is just like anything money can buy... tutors, vacations, private schools, etc.[/quote]

The vitriolic posters are the ones looking to justify their own past decisions.  The are transferring their doubt about their own choice into anger at parents who made a different choice.[/quote]
Yes, this does seem to be the case. Seems to be parents secretly second guessing not holding back their kids, but instead of being introspective about it, they are lashing out at others. [/quote]

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