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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he's a good dad, as hard as it is to let go of what you've already worked so hard to set for your kids, let go. And let him fail. If he's an asshole, I'd say fight it. But if he's trying to make this work for their sake, and you feel like a 50/50 relationship can work, make it work, for their sake. [/quote]

What does “is a good dad” mean in court? Does a few minutes of fun kid horseplay after work?

What happens to those dads with untreated ADHD?  Chronically forget things, don’t listen to anyone (kids trying to talk to him), cannot plan, absentminded and never in the present, cannot keep places clean or maintained, and then he worst: don’t see dangerous situations (kid taken out by surf wave), kid hit by car almost twice, windy doors slamming on kids fingers), etc.
Do they get 50/50? Or holidays with kids themselves? Seems like a real liability.[/quote]

I’m a lawyer. I saw a mom who had been smoking meth in front of her daughter/while pregnant with her daughter only lose custody after years of working with the system. You think the courts will be convinced by an accident with a windy day and a door?[/quote]

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