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[quote=Anonymous]IME this is exactly how long term marriages break down. We all know people who divorced after 20, 30 y ears right? The marriages weren't bad enough to leave in year ten or twelve when the kids were still little. No one cheated, there was no abuse. Nothing dramatic happened that made the marriage collapse. But over time, small things wear on you if they keep happening, especially if there is a lack of mutual respect and effective communication. It's a cumulative effect. Eventually, you get to a place where you're just sick of it and willing to do anything to get away from it. Plus I still say she is suffering from a midlife crisis. I'm sure that plays into it too. It's *extremely* common for 50 year olds to want to start over again. They're mostly young enough to delude themselves that that's possible. [/quote]
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