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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, older guys. You do realize those younger women who date you would generally prefer to date younger men, right? I mean, you realize that the women who date you either want your money, or want your career success, and when they tell you you're hot and a god lover, they're, um lying? And you're okay with that? Don't you have any pride at all?

The ones who don't just want your money are seriously f*d up gals with major daddy issues. How would you feel if your 20-something daughter brought a 60 year old home for the holidays? If that doesn't bother you -if the thought of sleeping with someone young enough to be your daughter doesn't bother you - you are one seriously sleazy guy.[/quote]

ITA. I'm in my early 40s and the thought of sleeping with someone in his 60s makes my skin crawl. Barf. I'm happily married with someone my age. The only women I know with partners 10+ years older were 1) from messed up families, absent dad, divorce or 2) broke. If given a choice, women would marry someone their age or less than 4 years older. Psychology Today has a study about the age difference. The age gap is larger for second marriages because women have to settle for inferior older men because a high percentage of the top ones (younger, healthier, at the top of their earning period) are already taken. 
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Wow, this really goes against what woman normally say.  You are really putting down women here, as have so many PPs.  So women just settle on an "inferior" men when they can't find what they feel they deserve?  Don't get me wrong, I understand that logic but tell us more about a woman who can't land one of the guys who are: younger, healthier, at the top of their earning period.  Why are they all taken and who took them?  Why aren't they out there just as I've read here that there are plenty of good looking older woman to date?  What kind of woman isn't able to attract and keep one of those men that she needs to lower her standards?  Describe her to me.

You really paint a picture of women being desperate to find a man, any man she can get, even past her baby fever years and into her second marriage.  Is it really like that?  DCUM sure isn't the place for empowered, modern women who make their own way in this world.  I may stop reading this board after this.  It really is one of the saddest, most negative boards towards relationships I've ever seen.

Not one woman here has offered an opinion that an older guy like me and younger woman might very well be in a good, healthy relationship.  You just can't imagine it and that's sad.[/quote]

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