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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP stay out of this. the news are going to spread out quickly regardless. let others do it.[/quote]

Unless everyone else has the same mentality. Which leads to it going on for who knows how long and numerous people in the community, neighborhood, kids school, etc. knowing about it before the other spouse does. Whether it is the wife or husband, it doesn't matter. The cheated on spouse deserves to preserve some dignity in the situation and be told.[/quote]

Let me ask the question another way.  Let's agree that, under normal circumstances, it would be admirable if the OP told the wife.  Agreed.  However, OP said herself that she does not associate with the woman because she thrives on drama and is always keeping drama going.  Knowing that, would you intentionally place yourself smack in the middle of the most dramatic situation that I can think of.  Because if OP is right about the woman, it is not going to be an in and out type of deal.  OP will be front and center in the drama because this woman will put her in it.  IF OP is prepared for that, she should tell her.  If OP does not want to take that on, she should keep quiet.

I think people are so caught up in the "the wife should know" aspect that they are ignoring the entire set of facts.  It is not an easy answer and the OP should look at the whole picture. [/quote]

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