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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Doing your best is to not bring a unrelated strange man in your teens home to cohabitate till the kids are up and out. I'm not saying this as some kind of morality play or shaming thing. It's for the consideration of making ones life better for the long haul. The resentment, damage and hurt inside the teen boys could last forever and bring sadness forever. Could you imagine how stupid you would feel in the statistically highly likely event of divorcing husband number 2?  Is it even worth the risk? When you make the plunge to override the comfortable home of your teen boys with this new marriage you almost can't even afford to have a fight with your new spouse. The kids will be like oh great.. Fighting with the guy we don't want in the house ... Kick him out.  It's like you have to act happier than you are and walk on eggshells to avoid any chance the relationship sours and you look like a fool.  Nobody is worth that crap.[/quote]

Okay, so your stance is that if people divorce or are widowed with children, they should not remarry until the kids are out of the house. Period.[/quote]

I'm pretty sure that only applies to the mothers remarrying.  Dads are men, ya know.[/quote]

Honestly , mothers usually have a tighter bond with their children. Men are pigs.  In the end it usually works out in the mothers favor if they put their kids first.[/quote]

Do you understand how sexist your position on this is? Women shouldn't remarry, because the men they marry are probably abusers and anyway, they should prioritize their kids over everything else. Men, on the other hand, shouldn't have to think about such things because they don't bond with their kids. Do the men in your life know how little you think of them?[/quote]

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