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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction. [/quote]
You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem. [/quote]

I'll try to give OP the benefit of the doubt.  What many of the people are saying is it is fine to have a preference, we all have preferences, but allow the possibility that the person you marry could be attractive, but different than your type.  Also within your type, even if you meet 1/20, what is unique about that one person beyond meeting your checklist?  It's like going for a job and making the case how qualified you are, but never giving the impression that it is specifically that job, that company.   Yes, part of that is asking questions and showing interest. The last thing people are saying is if you are dating for marriage, it will get beyond the superficial and you need to be prepared to bring more to the table and look for more beyond a checklist.  What if you lose you job what if she does, what if you have a child with special needs, what if you deal with sickness, what if she has a sick parent?  There has to be more than super petite ambitious Asian and however it is you would describe yourself in online dating.[/quote]

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