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Anonymous wrote:Asian female here. I kinda understand you OP. I married my type, which is hunky athletic Scandinavian type over 6'2". Funny thing is that my husband never saw himself with an Asian until he met me.

You could have done better. I'm a 6'5" hunky Scandinavian.

I beat you! I'm a 7'5" hunky Scandinavian!!!!!

I HAVE A 14" SCANDINAVIAN COCK

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

+1

I'll try to give OP the benefit of the doubt. What many of the people are saying is it is fine to have a preference, we all have preferences, but allow the possibility that the person you marry could be attractive, but different than your type. Also within your type, even if you meet 1/20, what is unique about that one person beyond meeting your checklist? It's like going for a job and making the case how qualified you are, but never giving the impression that it is specifically that job, that company. Yes, part of that is asking questions and showing interest. The last thing people are saying is if you are dating for marriage, it will get beyond the superficial and you need to be prepared to bring more to the table and look for more beyond a checklist. What if you lose you job what if she does, what if you have a child with special needs, what if you deal with sickness, what if she has a sick parent? There has to be more than super petite ambitious Asian and however it is you would describe yourself in online dating.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

Lmao- so you're telling yourself that everyone responding to you is an undesirable harpy so you can feel better about the reaponsss you're getting? Cool story, bro. If you thought only undesirable people read this board, why'd you come here for advice?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

Never said I didn't have a challenge. But a challenge is different then having something fundamentally wrong with your outlook. My OP simply asked for strategies to bring the same vibe/personality to 1st dates that I'm not as excited about as ones that I'm wanting to perfect. My preferences are entirely ancillary and in fact unrelated to the OP question asked. I simply indulged people's curious natures, but you'll note I never raised that aspect in my post. Careful what you ask for folks lol. Staying on topic has its virtues. I tried.

You are fundamentally immature if you think that marriage is about "ticking boxes."

I talked to a woman lately who had a crazy complication after having multiple Csections. The placenta of her last child grew through the scar and attached to her bladder and bowel. She almost died and had to have a hysterectomy and major reconstruction of her bladder.

She said her husband was amazinglying supportive and once she got back to being mobile...he carried her bag full of pee while she used her walker.

My DH shaved under my arms so gently and sweetly after I broke my arm.

I get the impression that you aren't ready to carry your wife's pee or colostomy bag.

In the end, that's what marriage is about. Please grow up or keep being a major creeper when your date is "your type."

not OP, but i'm intrigued by the term "Exceptionally petite"... i think the notion that it's that tiny is skewed by the average level of obesity in the American population. Most Asian women I see in the U.S. aren't exceptionally petite, they just look like what the average white woman looked like in 1950

Why don't you give up already and date whoever? I was only into darker skinned guys and I married a Bangladeshi guy. I don't think I could have put up with as many rejections as you. Clearly, they're not into you. You may have to drop ambitious (whatever that means) or exceptionally petite. I live in an area with tons of young Asians women. We're all in grad school together. They come in all sizes. Most of them marry young and they marry wealthy men. It's a very superficial cultural. Being exceptionally petite as you get older isn't really healthy for your bones. I say that as someone who is very petite myself.

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I have no idea what MRA is. Am I supposed to pay dues somewhere? Is this like the NRA? I don't even own a gun.

You should get one. Judging by the photos I see on OKC, Asian women like guns.

OP: there are dating coaches. You could consider hiring one.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

He's and MRA that's what they do. It's never them, it's always the women.

I have no idea what MRA is. Am I supposed to pay dues somewhere? Is this like the NRA? I don't even own a gun.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

He's and MRA that's what they do. It's never them, it's always the women.

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Anonymous wrote:You may come off as too eager.

+1

Eager and insecure. I'm also getting a really whiny, juvenile vibe from all his posts. I can picture what he looked like in hs, lol. (president of the anime club)

Nailed it!

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

Never said I didn't have a challenge. But a challenge is different then having something fundamentally wrong with your outlook. My OP simply asked for strategies to bring the same vibe/personality to 1st dates that I'm not as excited about as ones that I'm wanting to perfect. My preferences are entirely ancillary and in fact unrelated to the OP question asked. I simply indulged people's curious natures, but you'll note I never raised that aspect in my post. Careful what you ask for folks lol. Staying on topic has its virtues. I tried.

Asking about your preferences was relevant because you made it seem like it was so difficult to find a match, people asked thinking they could help you come up with ideas to increase your odds and that would result in you putting less pressure on yourself.

People turned on you when you revealed yourself to be a petulant,and misogynistic racist.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

Never said I didn't have a challenge. But a challenge is different then having something fundamentally wrong with your outlook. My OP simply asked for strategies to bring the same vibe/personality to 1st dates that I'm not as excited about as ones that I'm wanting to perfect. My preferences are entirely ancillary and in fact unrelated to the OP question asked. I simply indulged people's curious natures, but you'll note I never raised that aspect in my post. Careful what you ask for folks lol. Staying on topic has its virtues. I tried.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

You're the one on here complaining about repeatedly not getting second dates with women you like, but yeah, I guess it's everyone else who has a problem.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Loving the harpies reactions: closet homo, into anime in high school, the stereotypes just go on and on. Nope, not at all possible someone knows what they like and have specific preferences. Unless of course you're a 40 year old divorced mom of 2 who wants a 6'2 banker. In that case, all expectations are reasonable and the sister just needs to keep looking for prince charming. So predictable. It's almost fun seeing the reaction.

Go back to the red pill MRA forums.