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Annette Bening is a sophisticated, understated, private person, there is no comparison. Jennifer Lopez is an intense exhibitionist.
 If jennifer lopez has an insecurity (buried i suspect) i think it is around education and broadly yes, he appears to be more well read and comes from a background with cultural and intellectual capital. Obviously, she's wealthy but that is a different thing. He's also white.  She also has to deal with the discrimination that comes from their separate ethnicities and she feels probably unfairly stereotyped and like she's disrespected or seen as trashy because of her Latina status. [b](Affleck has said he feels she is oversexualized because of stereotypes around  her background and that she has said she felt that way).[/b]
  Despite all of her grandstanding and showing us how beautiful she is...I still suspect that is in part driven by a deeper insecurity. His mother's lack of adoration and approval, at least last time, probably exacerbated it. And must really bother her.  Her need to prove herself is so over the top, it suggests she's really must deep down be struggling with some part of herself. What part is unknown. None of that precludes that he has a ton of issues and demons himself obviously and that in some ways she is probably more stable,  responsible and far less impulsive than he is, in various ways. That's what I think will drive her crazy....his impulsively and self indulgence. She's far more controlled and self contained. 
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I mean look, I think Lopez is an extremely hard, committed worker who has lived a very clean life, and she is obviously a genius marketer who understands how to package a product and a persona that sells.  But that thing about oversexualizing is complete bullshit.  J Lo is oversexualized because she presents herself as an oversexual object.  No one oversexualizes other Latin celebrities because they don't have their tits hanging out the way Lopez does.  No one will oversexualize with you if you cover up.[/quote]

She may want it both ways, yes ....that she can objectify herself but then be bothered by being objectified in other settings or by people objectifying when it is unwanted or she is criticized for it. But It's a dilemma. Just readcommodity. review which summed up the problem of making your beauty a commodity. [/quote]

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