Anonymous wrote:jlo believes in horoscopes and magic powers of crystals. she is dumb as a rock.

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Anonymous wrote:So it's fine to talk about the ways she has more. (Money, self control, discipline, good judgment, work ethic). But if we mention one way he may have more (he appears to be more formally) educated) suddenly this is deeply offensive. Ok

Actually, I see no problem with saying he's better educated . However, I don't think it makes him look good as you think it does , given his lifestyle . He's every bit the Boston trash—educational background notwithstanding

Anonymous wrote:So it's fine to talk about the ways she has more. (Money, self control, discipline, good judgment, work ethic). But if we mention one way he may have more (he appears to be more formally) educated) suddenly this is deeply offensive. Ok

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Annette Bening is a sophisticated, understated, private person, there is no comparison. Jennifer Lopez is an intense exhibitionist.
If jennifer lopez has an insecurity (buried i suspect) i think it is around education and broadly yes, he appears to be more well read and comes from a background with cultural and intellectual capital. Obviously, she's wealthy but that is a different thing. He's also white. She also has to deal with the discrimination that comes from their separate ethnicities and she feels probably unfairly stereotyped and like she's disrespected or seen as trashy because of her Latina status. (Affleck has said he feels she is oversexualized because of stereotypes around her background and that she has said she felt that way).
Despite all of her grandstanding and showing us how beautiful she is...I still suspect that is in part driven by a deeper insecurity. His mother's lack of adoration and approval, at least last time, probably exacerbated it. And must really bother her. Her need to prove herself is so over the top, it suggests she's really must deep down be struggling with some part of herself. What part is unknown. None of that precludes that he has a ton of issues and demons himself obviously and that in some ways she is probably more stable, responsible and far less impulsive than he is, in various ways. That's what I think will drive her crazy....his impulsively and self indulgence. She's far more controlled and self contained.

I mean look, I think Lopez is an extremely hard, committed worker who has lived a very clean life, and she is obviously a genius marketer who understands how to package a product and a persona that sells. But that thing about oversexualizing is complete bullshit. J Lo is oversexualized because she presents herself as an oversexual object. No one oversexualizes other Latin celebrities because they don't have their tits hanging out the way Lopez does. No one will oversexualize with you if you cover up.

Anonymous wrote:Wow these comments are so racist. A smart, multitalented, disciplined and clean living multimillionaire Latina with successful film, singing and dancing career is not good enough for white trash with personal, drug and alcohol abuse issues? Afflecks father was a drunk and a janitor. He grew up in an emotionally abusive home.

Wowowowowow. But because he’s white, he is better than her?? 😱

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Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez is so desperate for love and never seems to find it. Is she capable to being along even for a week? I mean what kind of message does that send to her kids?

Heard his mom cannot stand her. I am sure that is part of the issue.

Her blue haired hippie daughter is speaking loudly through her behvaior as to how she feels about her mom sleeping ground.
Poor kids!

Ben is gorgeous but a mess. He needs a really really strong woman to keep him in check, someone who will challenge him, kind of like the dynamic between Warren Beatty and Anette Benning.

You've made a great point about Annette Bening. Big differences in that Annette is well educated, grew up in a reasonably stable home in the midwesy, doesn't appear to put as much emphasis on her appearance 24/7 and comes across as self- confident not desperate.

Annette Bening is a sophisticated, understated, private person, there is no comparison. Jennifer Lopez is an intense exhibitionist.
If jennifer lopez has an insecurity (buried i suspect) i think it is around education and broadly yes, he appears to be more well read and comes from a background with cultural and intellectual capital. Obviously, she's wealthy but that is a different thing. He's also white. She also has to deal with the discrimination that comes from their separate ethnicities and she feels probably unfairly stereotyped and like she's disrespected or seen as trashy because of her Latina status. (Affleck has said he feels she is oversexualized because of stereotypes around her background and that she has said she felt that way).
Despite all of her grandstanding and showing us how beautiful she is...I still suspect that is in part driven by a deeper insecurity. His mother's lack of adoration and approval, at least last time, probably exacerbated it. And must really bother her. Her need to prove herself is so over the top, it suggests she's really must deep down be struggling with some part of herself. What part is unknown. None of that precludes that he has a ton of issues and demons himself obviously and that in some ways she is probably more stable, responsible and far less impulsive than he is, in various ways. That's what I think will drive her crazy....his impulsively and self indulgence. She's far more controlled and self contained.

Basically she is way better than him, but because she is Latina and he is white and “educated”, the DCUM folks and his mom think she is not good enough.

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Annette Bening is a sophisticated, understated, private person, there is no comparison. Jennifer Lopez is an intense exhibitionist.
If jennifer lopez has an insecurity (buried i suspect) i think it is around education and broadly yes, he appears to be more well read and comes from a background with cultural and intellectual capital. Obviously, she's wealthy but that is a different thing. He's also white. She also has to deal with the discrimination that comes from their separate ethnicities and she feels probably unfairly stereotyped and like she's disrespected or seen as trashy because of her Latina status. (Affleck has said he feels she is oversexualized because of stereotypes around her background and that she has said she felt that way).
Despite all of her grandstanding and showing us how beautiful she is...I still suspect that is in part driven by a deeper insecurity. His mother's lack of adoration and approval, at least last time, probably exacerbated it. And must really bother her. Her need to prove herself is so over the top, it suggests she's really must deep down be struggling with some part of herself. What part is unknown. None of that precludes that he has a ton of issues and demons himself obviously and that in some ways she is probably more stable, responsible and far less impulsive than he is, in various ways. That's what I think will drive her crazy....his impulsively and self indulgence. She's far more controlled and self contained.