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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jennifer Lopez is so desperate for love and never seems to find it. Is she capable to being along even for a week? I mean what kind of message does that send to her kids?

Heard his mom cannot stand her. I am sure that is part of the issue.

Her blue haired hippie daughter is speaking loudly through her behvaior as to how she feels about her mom sleeping ground.
Poor kids!

Ben is gorgeous but a mess. He needs a really really strong woman to keep him in check, someone who will challenge him, kind of like the dynamic between Warren Beatty and Anette Benning.[/quote]

You've made a great point about Annette Bening. Big differences in that Annette is well educated, grew up in a reasonably stable home in the midwesy, doesn't appear to put as much emphasis on her appearance 24/7 and comes across as self- confident not desperate. [/quote]

Annette Bening is a sophisticated, understated, private person, there is no comparison. Jennifer Lopez is an intense exhibitionist.
 If jennifer lopez has an insecurity (buried i suspect) i think it is around education and broadly yes, he appears to be more well read and comes from a background with cultural and intellectual capital. Obviously, she's wealthy but that is a different thing. He's also white.  She also has to deal with the discrimination that comes from their separate ethnicities and she feels probably unfairly stereotyped and like she's disrespected or seen as trashy because of her Latina status. (Affleck has said he feels she is oversexualized because of stereotypes around  her background and that she has said she felt that way).
  Despite all of her grandstanding and showing us how beautiful she is...I still suspect that is in part driven by a deeper insecurity. His mother's lack of adoration and approval, at least last time, probably exacerbated it. And must really bother her.  Her need to prove herself is so over the top, it suggests she's really must deep down be struggling with some part of herself. What part is unknown. None of that precludes that he has a ton of issues and demons himself obviously and that in some ways she is probably more stable,  responsible and far less impulsive than he is, in various ways. That's what I think will drive her crazy....his impulsively and self indulgence. She's far more controlled and self contained. 
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Basically she is way better than him, but because she is Latina and he is white and “educated”, the DCUM folks and his mom think she is not good enough. [/quote]

That's what you got from the post? The premise was she has to deal with the prejudicial bs factor not that she is not good enough in reality. Also I meant he is white culturally and she is too obviously but also proud of her Puerto Rican heritage, rightly so. She is better in a lot if ways but she's not formally educated and I think she might feel insecure about that. A lot of people do. I mean hell few people have EVERYTHING. That's something she has not earned and I suspect it bothers her. [/quote]

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