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[quote=Anonymous]This will likely come across of more of a defense of Jen than intended, but what’s with the never speaking ill of an ex, especially if they cheated? You enter into a covenant with this person and make promises to each other and God, usually in front of all of your friends and family. When they break the covenant in supremely painful ways, why is it incumbent on the hurt party to not reveal to those same friends and family why the marriage is ending? I’m not suggesting that people should continually bad mouth their ex, especially to shared children, but I do think it is fine to share openly why the marriage is ending. This is a weird cultural thing, especially in Christian circles, and it seems designed to preserve the dignity of cheaters, primarily cheating men. All marriages have problems, but not all marriages have cheaters. Additionally, Brandon got a lot of mileage out of being the biker preacher guy, presumably while cheating on his wife. He’s not a victim. [/quote]
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