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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm back with some updates. DD ended up Venmoing us the money back (so no jail), but unfortunately, she begged money from DS (who works a high-paying tech job in SF) to buy plane tickets for her to go to her roommates's parents' house over winter break (not OUR house). When I asked her why she wouldn't come to her own flesh and blood -- her family! -- over her friend's family for Christmas, she FLIPPED OUT at us and started cussing us out. She kept yelling at DH and I that we were "controlling her financially all throughout college by making college funding contingent on me attending church when I don't believe in God" and that we "only know how to control her financially and don't have any real relationship with your only daughter except for one that consists of financial control" and that we've "ruined her with generational trauma" and all this ridiculous psychobabble that she unfortunately has picked up from her therapist (who is convinced, wrongly, that we're the root of all of her problems, but I digress).

Oh, and she's still unemployed and "searching for a job." Like she has been since May :roll:

I emphasized to her that maybe 9 months of "searching for a job" has shown that her strategy has been ineffective, and she needs to go back to school for a more lucrative degree than her BA in English if she wants a chance of getting a normal office job. But she REFUSES, because she's entitled, delusional, and extremely narcissistic. [/quote]

Why would she want to stay with you after what happened with the credit card? You really need to be careful if you plan on having a relationship with your DD going forward. It's hard for me to believe your follow up post is even real. I'm leaning toward "troll" since you seem to genuinely hate your DD and yet you're surprised she hates you back.[/quote]

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