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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many possibilities here that aren’t sign of a problem or illness:

he was somewhere where he needed to hide the lube and grabbed the nearest thing he could find. He either isn’t aware it’s a valuable piece of clothing and that sister has been missing it, or is aware and does not know how to make it suddenly reappear again. Maybe, he  doesn’t even really care.

He may have used it to wipe off after regular masturbation and can’t figure out how to get it washed undetected and so he just decoded to keep it hidden.

Another possibility is that he’s using it while masturbating because it’s soft and slippery. Masturbation at this age is totally normal as is messing around with different things (pillows, creams, clothing, textures, etc).

None of this makes him a threat, a danger, or even a bad kid. Maybe thoughtless towards his sister, selfish, but certainly no pervert.  Bad judgement on the garment he grabbed in a hurry? Thoughtless towards his sister? Sure, but he’s got very age appropriate drives on his mind (and body).

Don’t humiliate him over this and don’t make sister hate him over it either. Get a new swimsuit, let him keep that one or just throw it away. Do not discuss with her OR him. Jesus the humiliation might make things even worse.

God, some you all are just hysterical. The sister fantasy thing is so overblown. Even freaking out about porn. I don’t love the availability of it and some of it is crazy. Porn addiction is also a problem but a teenage boy wanting to masturbate and watching occasional porn is not reason to lose one’s mind. [/quote]

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