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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Narcissism is essentially very low self esteem and an unreasonable need for external validation.  It often stems from early childhood trauma. [/quote]

Narcissists also typically aren’t bleeding heart boy or girl crazy romantics.  Most narcs would never make an album, movie, and doc about loving someone else .

J Lo is more of a fame whore than a malignant narcissist but she said her mother is a narcissist and was abusive . A claim she made in that doc in fact .

Her mother was apparently a big gambler and tried to sell J Los wedding pics from the Marc Anthony wedding to Telemundo or some Spanish media outlets in order to get quick cash. J Lo cut her off and Marc encouraged her to speak to her again. J Lo hates her mom and loves and speaks glowingly of her dad [/quote] any reason why her she doesn't distance herself from her mom now? I guarantee she has some blame on why ben/jlo are in this position once again. [/quote]

On some level she's still seeking her mom's approval? And if Ben was the only one of her boyfriends that mom liked, the marriage two uears ago was a double win for Jen. She finally did something right in her mother's eyes.

Girl, heal thyself!![/quote]

Oh that makes a lot of sense! I think her mom said something crazy like she's been praying for  a reconciliation these past two decades. Being with Ben is the ultimate approval. [/quote]

She said she prayed for 20 years that they’d get back together.  Within a month of their relationship reunion, Ben and J Los mom were  hitting the Vegas slot machines at 3am without J Lo. Is this really appropriate? He’s also a recovering alcoholic .

Ben is  permanently banned from the Hard Rock Cafe for  being “too good at blackjack”. He says he spent years and years figuring out the game  that the cafe banned him because he kept winning so much or calling  bluffs and giving good advice to others. He even considered suing to get back in. This is insane addict behavior[/quote]

He was caught card counting. That's why he was banned. It's like something from RainMan.[/quote]

That’s not what he claims. He claimed he was banned because he was “too good at the game” and was “helping others out”.

This is classic gambler  behavior. “I don’t do this for me.. I do this for the common good. I want everyone  to win”.

Gambling is such an insidious and toxic addiction because it’s very hard to stop as there are no physical or health complications to it . Your body tells you when you should stop drinking . It doesn’t tell you when you should stop gambling money away.

I find it pathetic that Vegas casino workers say J Lo was hated for taking as much of Lupe or Ben’s cash off the tips or betting tables as she can.

J Lo is financially responsible and a sound business woman. Why does she torture herself playing  babysitter to her  mother and husband ?[/quote]

Whatever he claims, reports at the time stated "card counting" and that's the most likely scenario.[/quote]

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