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[quote=Anonymous]OP: Even if what your DIL did was passive-aggressive and rude, you only have one good option here. Be gracious. Let her host. Or, do Thanksgiving on your own with friends. But be nice and gracious, without a smidge of snarkiness or resentment in any of your dealing with her. It will be hard (I can tell from the tone of your posts) but you must do it. Because... One day you will probably have grandchildren and you'll want to see them a lot. You will need to be on good terms with DIL for that to happen. What you do now will set the tone for YEARS of interactions that have much more at stake than just where you eat turkey. Considering it losing the battle to win the war, if you must, but this is a crucial moment for you. Do. Not. Blow. It. [/quote]
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