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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the pps who decided to not give a damn anymore -- did your dhs know that you flipped the switch? Or did they just go one being oblivious and thoughtless while you felt a lot better? Or did you say -- F it, you do you?[/quote]

This happened in my marriage, too.  I fought and fought with him and the way our marriage was. I was trying everything to make it work. I thought about divorce. We talked about divorce.  I decided not to divorce him because we have a kid with special needs who really needs to live with both of his parents.  I told DH that I was done fighting about the marriage, that I would stay until the kids were adults, but that I was planning on leaving when that happened.  Very clear about my intent.

DH did a 180.  He is working very hard to try to figure out how to convince me not to leave him in 10 years.  He tries really, really hard.  I don't know what will happen in 10 years. I can still take it or leave it, but the marriage is a lot better now.  (Before this, I was definitely in the "leave it" camp.)[/quote]

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