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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the sister doesn't have a job, is being supported by her boyfriend....maybe it's just as well that she has disentangled from the Op?

It sounds as though the parents and Op made some sort of bargain with this sister when she was too young to really understand what the agreement entailed and what exactly was being asked of her.  Did she know what her parents and older sister expected of her?  Was it ever laid out for her what they expected?  I'm getting the sense hear that sister may have had a few things "sprung" on her too and she's not liken it too much..[/quote]

It looks like the younger sister was maybe 18-19 when the deal was made. I think she understood what was expected but if didn't quite get what that would look like in reality. Now she is no more interested in being a part of that deal which everyone can understand but at the same time her parents sacrificed the wellbeing of their other children to make sis' American adventure possible. [/quote]

The parents made a mistake then.  You don't make this kind of deal with a teenage kid who has so very little in the way of life experience that she has no clue what she was even agreeing to.

That's the sort of thing you do to someone that YOU want to control.[/quote]

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