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Reply to "Getting married in a month and I can't decide if I want to take his last name "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Changing my name in no way changed WHO I was- what an odd idea. I simply switched my name from my fathers last name to my husband and children's name. We are a family. [b]Strange that your fathers name actually defines you[/b].[/quote] Nope - you don't get it. It isn't about being defined by my father's last name. It's about my identity being tied to the name I have always had - the name I was born with, the name that I've had my entire life, and the name others - especially my colleagues - have known me by. Why the heck should I have changed it just because I got married? OP - you do what feels right. But there's no need to rush your decision either way. [/quote]
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