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[quote=Anonymous]My niece was bossy as a 5 year old.  My brother was also told she was going to POTUS with her personality.  By 8 she had 1 friend left who would play with her.  By 14 she was giving boys BJs for attention.  Alcohol problems in high school.  Rehab in college.  She's lovely now but I wish they had taught her at a young age that she couldn't boss other kids around.  That it wasn't nice or kind.  She would have had more friends and better self esteem.

she also was a beautiful little girl who got a lot of attention from strangers when she was young and my sister in law loved it.  Thought she was "special".  She didn't stay beautiful.  Food issues came with the low self esteem.  And in my experience beautiful child does not translate into beautiful teen or adult by the way, so OP don't be banking on her looks to get her anywhere.  There's no guarantee.

You and your situation remind me of my sister in law and my niece and I hope someone close to you has the courage to tell you to reign your kid in before it's too late.  If you teach her to treat people the way she wants to be treated and start right now with disciplining her when she is bossy to her friends in your presence she may have a chance.   If you continue to let her boss people around she could turn out to be POTUS, or she could end up like my niece.  Do you want take that chance?  [/quote]

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