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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, perhaps the mixed signals gave him pause.  COMMUNICATE.   You seem to be putting all the work on him.

And be clear in the future.  " Hey Larlo Inreally like hanging out but want to wait until we get to know each other better.  How about dinner Friday."    Expecting a guy to read and interpret mixed signals this early on is a recipe for disaster.  Most guys will decide it isnt worth the effort (i would) and move on.[/quote]

Man here. THIS is good advice. OP said she didn't let him go further on the third date because she was having her period. It's a whole lot better to say that than to shut things down and not mention it. A guy will take that to mean the woman is still interested, but logistics prevent things from going forward.

She was sending mixed signals and being indecisive. The guy took that to mean she wasn't that into him, and he moved on. I can understand why -- life is short, so why waste time on someone who may not even like you?[/quote]

Simple, tell the guy by date 3 that you like him but want to get to know him better before that part of the relationship. Three dates is nothing, you don't know that person.  Establish a relationship and that you both are a match...then comes the sex.[/quote]

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