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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the person who takes it upon themselves to tell someone this needs to prepare themselves (like, brace for impact prepare yourself) for the blowback that will be immediate. It doesn't mean the person will think you're crazy, or lying, but they WILL NOT be happy you told them, and they will not be in the right frame of mind to be gracious, thankful, "I know you meant well" about it. So I think if you want to play God here, you need to be fully prepared for whatever might happen the second those words leave your mouth.

My husband could theoretically be a cheating dog. The woman who takes it upon herself to sidle up to me and whisper that in my ear, with backup information and details, is not going to get the best reaction out of me. Because my first instinct would be to protect my family and myself. And that would include shutting down any possibility of her thinking it's okay to repeat it, even continue to think about it. In no way do I want someone's pity or watchful eye on me as I now process the shit she decided to dump in my lap.

So, saddle up if you want but don't be surprised if the reaction you get is extreme and unpleasant. [/quote]

Thud.[/quote]

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