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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Team OP. BIL obviously has temper issues or he wouldn't have apologized. And why did SIL apologize for an incident she wasn't even home for unless she knew about his temper issues and, upon hearing HER OWN DH's version, knew that HE'D been the one who overstepped? OP, to address your question, whether or not to stay there in future depends on how candidly you and they can talk about what happened and how to handle similar situations. I do agree with some of those on team BIL that your kids picked up on your response and it intensified their reaction, so you'd also need to be able to turn that down if something happens--like, stay in the room and comfort your kid with BIL there so's not to send the message that he is a monster. It may not be worth it to you to do that work, in which case--hotel.[/quote] OP here. Thanks for these thoughts PP.[/quote]
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