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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you tried visualizing someone else while you are having sex? That might make it better for you. Just try to shut him out. It sounds like you have a good marriage aside from the sex issue. Everyone is different but for me that is like 10% (or likely less, maybe 5% lol) importance. Don't throw a good man away just because you are hung up on your passionate but "dysfunctional" and "angry" ex.[/quote]

OP. Haha, yes this is exactly what I do. But the problem is he is always trying to kiss me and bring me back to the present which is irritating. I've never actually said "don't kiss me" but I turn me head away to try to let him know I don't like that.[/quote]

Why so passive?  Tell him that you don't want to be kissed at some moments so you can just enjoy other sensations.   I've told my DH not to kiss me a certain way, that I didn't like it.  It took me years to work that up.  I, too, would just turn my head.  It's much better now that I've told him how I feel, what I want.[/quote]

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