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[quote=Anonymous]Let me understand this... you want him to act a bit like an asshole with you.   :roll:   This is why some men treat women like assholes, because some women apparently want it.  OMG.

OP, do you ever think that other bf you've had could treat you a bit "rougher" because they didn't have kids, mortgage, etc.. with you?  When people are childless and don't have as much responsibilities, they have the room to be selfish and act selfishly.

Imagine if you got divorced, you find that man whom you have chemistry with, which includes him being a bit rough, a bit of an asshole.  How do you think such a man will treat your kids?  You want a man who is kind to your kids but rough with you?  Good luck finding that.

I get that you never felt chemistry with him.  And if you weren't yet married to him with kids, I'd say yea, don't marry him if you have doubts.  But, that's shoulda, woulda, coulda at this point.  You have kids.

If this is so important to you, then yea, get divorced.  Certainly, life is too short to be miserable.  But, I think you should be honest with yourself and know that if you do this, you will be turning your kids' lives upside down.   Stew on that a bit.[/quote]

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