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[quote=Anonymous]To answer your question OP, this happens because of how differently men and women are wired, and because of what marriage is really about.

1. Marriage is really society's way of giving a family legal identity, more than anything to do with sex and intimacy. In Western societies you no longer have to get married to have sex, so marriage, particularly this side of the world, was not designed to guarantee hot, steamy sexual fulfillment forever. Only very few couples get this as a bonus.

2. Women are naturally wired with a biological clock, just like other mammals. They naturally want to find a suitable mate during their most productive and fertile years. So between 20-40, there is a rush to find a mate, especially within the stability of a marriage. However, as soon as this happens, then their priorities and bodies will naturally place premium on the new members of the family and not the mate who helped fertilize them into being. Western legal systems are then designed to trap the man into staying or take the financial hit, to guarantee women this stability and security. Typical mammalian behavior, except that sub-human females do not have laws that govern family life, but humans do.

3. Men are wired to always be ready and able to mate as there is no direct inverse relationship between age and fertility for them. Virility declines, but not fertility between the given ages of 20-40 years, or even beyond.

With that being the case, we can conclude that monogamy is unnatural; that monogamous matrimony is a flawed concept; or that you accept what marriage is and what it isn't.

Hope I have answered your question OP.[/quote]

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