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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First [b]you need to stop thinking your way is the only right way to live[/b]. Then you need to both set a plan you can live with- both, he gets input too. If that ends up with you putting aside a certain amount every month that he doesn't need to account for, that could work. I get your feelings about money but seriously, stop shaming this man. That doesn't lead anywhere good. [/quote] THIS. I live more like you than your DH, but you are majorly infantilizing him. The way you talk about him, his family, and his friends is absolutely dripping with condescension. Not only is that terrible for your relationship, it probably leads him to spend even more out of rebellion. You should really find a way to make time for therapy, because once you guys get divorced you will have even less control over him. (You will, however, be free of all of the "fools" he hangs out with, so maybe you would be happier.)[/quote]
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