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[quote=Anonymous]Somewhat related to OP's post - is there some value in accepting that your partner might cheat one day so you are mentally prepared to accept it? Cheating is incredibly common, the chances that your long term marriage will remain faithful till death are not great. I know I sound like a pessimist, but I just assume there is a chance my DW might mess up. I told her if she did, I don't want to know, unless it means she wants out of the marriage. Or maybe I just don't see sex as that big of a deal (maybe I should be a swinger). Just a thought, but it seems so extreme to toss out a good relationship over something so common as infidelity, especially since he cheated when they were long distance. If it's just sex, and he wasn't sincerely declaring his love for this OW, it doesn't seem worth the mental anguish that OP is going through.[/quote]
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