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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My therapist thought I had done my husband a disservice by telling him about my second affair. I didn't want there to be any secrets any more. But she said that was my cross to bear, and I should not have placed that burden on him.[/quote] I believe your therapist was correct. More often than not the person doing the confessing does so to shed some of the burden. The pain inflicted on the 'injured' party is not worth it if you are in fact going to work to remove yourself from the affair and seek the help needed to deal with it.[/quote]
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