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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's no way to truly have access to all of his stuff. If he wants to cheat, he'll find a way.

There are lots of people who have second (or third) phones that their spouses dont know about because they never take them home. He could access certain stuff at work, library, anywhere there is free WiFi, etc.

I think you really have to decide whether or not you can trust him again and take the risk. [/quote]

OP here. I absolutely agree. I asked him the exact same questions - how do I know you wouldn't find ways to connect with other women, women you know or women you don't know, and do this again, behind my back? How do I know you wouldn't just open a new email account or buy a second phone and do this all over again, but with a better sense of how to hide it? He answered saying he doesn't know how to prove it me other than stating he would never, ever do this again. And that he knows the only way I would believe him is to learn to trust him again and see it through his actions, words and commitment to improving himself and doing what he can to make things work.

I want to believe. I really, really do. But I am so shocked and hurt from what I discovered, and knowing I can't implicitly trust him at this time, I'm just not convinced. [/quote]

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