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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Bitch OP here.  So, after a few days of us not really talking, my H showed up at my office this morning, told me how much he loved me, and that he misses me.  We went to lunch and talked. I told him that I love him, but I also did not want to fight about who did what b/c we always end up in the same spot.  We are who we are, and we probably aren't changing.  He said he realizes that he has been an asshole lately.  And he also wants me to do my part (less bitchy, probably).  That's fair.  So, good day.  We'll see.  Inevitably, my scale will tip back in the direction of "fed up with this shit", but who knows when, for how long, and whether it will remain that way.  [/quote]

This is marriage, OP. It's up and down, just like life. You don't sound very easy to live with yourself.

Eventually, you get older. And you see that you can't just trade partners because you're bored or he's ticking you off. Many of my friends who divorced in their 40s are still single. The dating dynamics just aren't in their favor as the 45-year-old man likes 35-year-old women.

Your daughter should be your priority, since you choose to have her, and she deserves an intact family. [/quote]

Sorry your happiness is having a warm body next to you at night...any warm body. I have a newsflash for you: some people are OK not dating. Very often no spouse is better than any spouse.[/quote]

I'm the PP. No, I'm just an actual functioning adult. A happily married one at that, for 26 years. I wasn't checking off any list when I tied the know -- I married a great guy who is smar, kind, witty and charming -- most of  the time. Sometimes, he's a jerk. But that's pretty rare. And I don't think "divorce" every time we he has a bad day.

I also consider him a good friend, and I can tell that it's sad state of affairs that many of the DCUM has no idea what it is to be a true friend to their spouse.

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