Reply to What is a fair contribution from Fiance living in my house?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "What is a fair contribution from Fiance living in my house?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Sabrina55][quote=Anonymous]I'm still not entirely sure this is  a real post considering how OP went from a totally spineless, "I deserve to be treated like this" mentality to "I showed him this thread and he is leaving" fairly quickly.

If it is true, please hold your ground.  Think about the example you are setting for your children, who seem like they are old enough to pick up on this.  Do you really want them raised in this type of environment?  It's a terrible example of how to be treated and how to treat someone who you "love". [/quote]

I have no idea to prove that I am real, any suggestions?? This has been an ongoing issue for a while and I have been building resentment from this and other issues, I was just trying to stick the financial aspect of it. He has been staying at parents for a little bit so this was not out of the blue. I showed him this thread because like I said I wanted to be as honest as possible and get real feedback on how to handle this and show him that it is not me being greedy and how looking at our situation from the outside of what is fair and right and get ideas of how other people handle these type of issues. I don't know anyone with a blended family and have no idea the fair way to handle it, so it wasn't that I felt I deserved to be treated this way, I feel manipulated into thinking that I was wrong for wanting more, and out of love, let it go. That is why I even put the 44% from my tenant because I wanted it to be as accurate as possible to get honest opinions. I love him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and I am not sure I would rather be alone then to not feel that I am not more important to him than money. I always cave and either way I lose. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics