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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Single men also have affairs with married women. What kind of men are they?[/quote]

I had an ef with a married woman as a 28 yr old single man. It's the 1st serious 'relationship' after breaking up with my 1st girl friend seven years earlier.

She and I both arrived at this northern country just recently and she was my landlord. She was at a low point in her life, having just given up a promising career to follow her husband who was studying abroad. In the first few months, we were just friends. Though she offered to cook for me, I had no intention to start a romantic relationship with a married woman. However,  her husband was always busy and they fought a lot, sometimes in front of me. I could see that she was lonely, and gradually I developed a feeling for her after several months. At first I was confused,  I went to a library to look up this in books and suddenly I realized that I was in the middle of an affair.

Her husband probably knew of all this, but couldn't care less. But the life was becoming more difficult as they fought more often and she was more interested in a committed relationship. Eventually I moved out of their place after living with them for one year. We remained as best friends afterwards and after two years she introduced me to a woman who became my wife. She was the best woman at our wedding. They have three children and are still married today.

Do I regret it? Yes. But I was not a monster.

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