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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- everyone saying it's not my problem. I understand he is not my problem but in my mind, stability for my children is my problem. For example, if he moves to a studio far away and can't drive, then does he stop having custody of the kids? That would be so traumatic for them.

I have all my savings. He drained his savings to pay for his dui.[/quote]

I agree, OP. I am surprised by everyone saying not your problem. He is the father of your kids. [/quote]

No. Strongly disagree. As a mother who made a mistake of allowing an unstable exH around my child. My child was verbally, physically abused and neglected. The dad went on bringing women letting son play video games non  stop, screaming , once threw him out of the house in winter jn undewear. etc

If he’s that unstable, it’s best for OP’s kids stability if father moves as far away as possible and only gets visitation under OPs close control

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Yeah, I'm sure the kids love their dad and dad may love his kids, but for the time being at least, living a few blocks away from your alcoholic dad with shared custody is doubtfully what's most stable for these young kids.[/quote]

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