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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just don’t see this as a dire situation. OP always gets her way. DH took the child to urgent care and got up with the other one in the night when OP wanted him to. She doesn’t seem very powerless here.[/quote] You unwittingly hit the nail on the head. yes OP has power - and she used that power to care for her children (get one to the hospital over the objections of the DH; soothe the toddler in the middle of the night with a nosebleed.) That exercise of power over a crucial situation is exactly what triggered her DH’s opposition and anger. He is *triggered* by child medical emergencies because they in fact give the mother power and authority. Take from that what you will. The DH is more angry at seeing his wife empowered by the natural maternal reaction to a child’s medical emergency, than he is concerned about the health and well being of his child. “Nobody is the boss of me” is the motto of these losers. [/quote]
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