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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I have taken the time to read every post and have considered most of the posters perspectives. Some are very clueless but I will drum them up to being a lost cause.

I’m not a troll. My DH likes us to eat very healthy and I agree with him. We eat a super clean whole food diet but we aren’t crazy about it. We do prefer to prepare our food because I’ve been to two houses where the hosts were less than hygienic when it came to preparing food. You really can’t trust people unless you really know them.

I don’t have to work but prefer to work. I think making $60k a year for my 20 hours a week isn’t that bad. I’ve made $150+ working full time. I like being able to keep my foot in the door and plan to return to work full time once both kids are in school. I never planned to stay home once the kids were in school. I like having a job and it’s important I’m still contributing to my retirement funds. DH and I plan to retire fairly early and travel the world.

I realize my expectations are too much since my husband is a great provider and active father. I don’t want more nanny help but I will be hiring a weekly cleaner that will do our laundry. I will ask the nanny to help keep up with cleaning up the kids messes. I will look in to a chef.

We can afford more help. I’m just apprehensive to have more because I don’t want to feel like a lazy bum who can’t handle the basics.

I didn’t marry my husband solely for his earnings. I do love him and enjoy being married to him. I did like knowing that I had the choice to stay home. I dated another guy around the time I met DH and chose DH because of his earning potential and because the sex was better.

We have millions in the bank thanks to DH. My salary before/after kids and is building a great foundation for our kids college funds.  
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