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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are in the thick of things right now. But it is worth really carving out some time to figure out exactly what the problem is. You are feeling overwhelmed, but what would it look like ideally?

I do think outsourcing more is an option.  We had a daily housekeeper for years when the kids were young who came 4 hours a day. She did all the laundry, all the cleaning, could run errands/ replenish cleaning supplies, could prep packed lunches the day before, and could do dinner prep by chopping vegetables, etc.

If the issue is that your husband plops on the sofa when he comes home and you are running around, figure out what he could do that would be helpful and explore if there are some things you are doing in the evenings that you can get done (or have done earlier - see above).

Festering resentment is really, really bad for your marriage so try to get your husband engaged to help problem solve (and not just be resentful that he isn’t doing more).

Also if you *only* have childcare for exactly when you are working, that’s probably not enough. You need to take care of yourself, too. [/quote]

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