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[quote=Anonymous][quote][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Question: my son and his group of friends are all couples that have been dating a long time (6 couples with 2-4 yrs relationships for all). They want to get a beach house during "beach week" together as couples.  My husband and I are both from NOVA and we both went to beach week 30 yrs ago (yikes! saying that hurts a little, lol!) These guys are wanting to go down separately (not the same week or even the same beach location) as the rest of their high school.  I am really struggling with this.  I know they all have sex anyway, but this feels like a bridge too far--sending them off on a couples retreat basically.  All the other parents in the group seem to be fine with this and I am frankly left scratching my head.  I would be more apt to consider the co-ed situation if they were all just a platonic group of friends, but this is different.  Looking for other parent input to determine if I am overreacting. (Please be gentle)[/quote]

[quote]Well, it is nice they have built their own sort of gay community. But I don’t think the couples should get a beach house together unless they are all over 18 and have their own rules for avoiding illegal drinking drugs etc. 
since the election things might get dicey for lgbtq as well, they should thoroughly vet out the beach village community first [/quote][/quote]

Sorry, clarification here: I guess my question did not specifically pertain to the topic of "beach house rules contract"--(I was hastily just adding my question to the ongoing conversation with that subject line).  To my knowledge, none of the parents are having the kids sign a house rules contract.  There will be no chaperone since the house they found does not require one; and yes, one of the girls had her mom sign the rental contract for them.  Also, in response to someone's comment to vet the beach for lgbtq safety: these are all heterosexual couples, so the advice is not relevant in this scenario, but I can understand the concern.  Thank you all for giving me your feedback. I appreciate being able to examine all sides before making a decision and this was truly helpful.  Happy holidays and best of luck to all of you! [/quote]

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