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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are not annoying. Many of us have been there or know women who’ve been there - or know men like your husband. You can only forgive a person who is truly sorry and will not do it again - someone who commits a one time mistake or does something he can’t control. But you are not really forgiving someone if they just manipulate you into their spiderweb. In that case, what you are doing is lying to yourself because you are not seeing the true nature of what he’s doing.

I think you should write down everything he did and must have done and then make yourself read it every day. Write down not only what you know he said to her - but how, when you check your calendar, he did that the day of your kid’s soccer game, or when he wouldn’t pick you up at the airport or whatever. Connect the dots for yourself so you make yourself look at your actual circumstance. That is who he is. That is who you’re chained to on this road we call life. Now if you’re okay with him having affairs, you can open up your marriage - but you’re still stuck with the lying and lack of respect. You can’t depend on him for your self-worth and self-respect. I really think you should make your decision with your eyes open — and if your eyes were open, it wouldn’t faze you that the OP is wearing a necklace because you would be focused on you. [/quote]

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