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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I am not worried about the financials. I am paying child support and my kids are not lacking anything nor will I neglect them if I have another child. As I said it is not my intention to remarry and have more kids but I really love  my current girlfriend and if she says she wants to marry because she wants a child I would do it. But of course I am worried being a new dad all over again as I am entering my 50s. [/quote]

I think it would be very hard not to neglect them in some way if you have more children.  I mean, in some ways, having a baby is easy.  You can drag them along to stuff your older kids are doing.  
But when your second set of kids is 12 and 14, and your current kids are young adults, you aren’t really going to be able to be around.

Should you give up on marriage and having a second family so that you can be around when your kids sporadically need you?  I don’t know.  But don’t pretend there are no downsides.  [/quote]

Would you honestly same the same about women? There are plenty of women on this forum who remarry and have kids OP's ages and I don't recall people telling them what you are telling OP. [/quote]

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