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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I came across this thread while searching for answers as to why my mom doesn’t ask how I’m doing.  That was literally my google search as I’m recovering from breast cancer surgery!   She’s mad at me for God knows why, hasn’t asked me how I am, she hasn’t called or texted. She’s off on a trip with her BF. I shared with her that I am also struggling with EDH drama and 3 sad kiddos, nothing. This has been her pattern my whole life, and I just assumed I was unlovable and an overall bad person, bc how could I be ok if my own mother doesn’t prioritize my needs, is always upset and is  disappointed with me?  I’m in therapy now which of course upsets her,  reading this thread is such a relief to know it’s not me!  [/quote]

I’m so sorry. I went through something similar recently too and my parents didn’t communicate with me while I was in treatment. I heard that my father was making fun of me to his friends for having “fake cancer”. Apparently to these boomers it’s only cancer if you die three months later.

Take care of yourself and I hope you have a good support system.[/quote]

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