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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]She is wildly overreacting to you reading her texts.[/b]

Also, texts can deleted so not sure that this helped. Emails can be deleted too. Internet history can be cleared. Without an IT background and a lot of work, checking her phone won’t yield useful information even if she was.

She probably has feelings for him. I know I would in that situation. What you don’t know is if she did anything with those feelings and you may never know.

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I think the silent treatment is an unacceptable method of dealing with an issue, but I can also understand why she is upset that her husband read her texts. I say things to my girlfriends that I'd rather my husband not read and I would be upset if he read them.[/quote]

Really?  I complain about my husband to my girlfriends too, but it’s nothing I wouldn’t say to his face.  If he had the patience to go through my texts it would very much be a nonissue.

Also, she definitely should not be telling neighbor guy anything she wouldn’t want DH to know.[/quote]

Yes, really. Of course I communicate with my husband and I do tell him to his face when I have an issue, but I can also vent with my friends about the fact that he left the soy sauce contained sitting directly under the cabinet in which it lives for two days until the cleaners came because we like to laugh about the fact that our husbands sometimes do dumb things. I'm not angry with him about it. I don't need to talk to him about it. But he also doesn't need to know that my friends and I make fun of our husbands sometimes.

It's not like I'm telling my friend that I hate my husband or want a divorce or have big issues in our marriage. That I would obviously discuss with him. But I also appreciate the ability to be able to vent with my friends without my husband knowing about it. So yeah, I would be upset if he read through all my messages because I didn't do anything wrong but I could nonetheless see how his feelings could be hurt and why bother having that conversation? I love him deeply, our marriage is amazing, our life is wonderful, but living with another person means sometimes they get on your nerves and it's ok to talk to friends about that without needing to bring it up to your spouse. [/quote]

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