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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just don't get people who jeopardize their reality for fantasy. [/quote]

Yes, the OP has indeed jeopardized his relationship by letting his imagination take over.

He needs to act like an adult and actually talk with his wife. He swears he didn't accuse her of anything, but if he cannot comprehend that anyone would view his actions so far as incredibly accusatory in nature, he's a lost cause. She's immature to go silent, but she also likely feels totally blindsided, and is wondering if he's spent the last several [i]years[/i] stewing over this silently, while putting on a fake-happy face in front of her. He seems oblivious to this, and prefers thinking he's in the right to actually communicating like an adult with the person he's supposed to love.

It's almost as if OP [i]wants[/i] to find out she had an affair, so he can feel justified in his suspicions and snooping. The people posting glib little "listen to you gut" jabs here about the wife are aholes contributing to his Need To Be Right and probably to the demise of the marriage, too. A woman can have a male friend who really is only a friend, but that seems to be beyond OP's and DCUM's ability to understand. And yeah, I'd say the same about a husband with a female friend.[/quote]

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