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[quote=Anonymous]^ I should also note that I grew up in an abusive household where my parents didn't divorce and I've thought about this a lot and I don't think divorce would have helped me. It was going to suck either way (both parents were abusive and our family was very dysfunctional) but I think growing up with married parents and without the financial strain of a divorce spared me at least some extra trauma. I had to build my conception of what a healthy, functional relationship was from scratch as an adult anyway. At least I didn't also have to shuttle back and forth between two homes while trying to perform at school and have a social life, and at least my parents could not use custody or child support as a weapon in their ongoing dysfunction.[/quote]
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