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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP and DH have experienced a breakdown of trust, so every disagreement starts a fight. [b]One of you can be the peacemaker[/b] and change the direction, or you can keep hustling along to divorce.

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This is such a knee-jerk post-therapy response.

Yeah, right.

Who will be the "peacemaker" PP?

I read most of this thread, and I'm sure it's not going to be the DH here!!

OP, I think your DH is on the spectrum. He probably has other issues, but his behavior sounds very spectrum-y to me.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-heart-autism/201511/married-partner-the-autism-spectrum

He may have other issues too, but being on the spectrum makes most therapy useless. You need to find a therapist specializing in NT/ASD couples.

Or get ready to leave, which it sounds like you are doing. It's tough, OP. Blessings and strength to you. 
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That’s an interesting link. I know he has anxiety and he has referred to his OCD a lot but I don’t know if it’s an official diagnosis. For sure he has trauma.

He told our therapist the other day that he was struck by how our therapist could understand my feelings. He said I listen to the same words but I can’t hear what you hear. How can I do that?

He is extremely literal. I feel like I need to translate things into very simple, blunt, concrete language for him to understand. And his work requires high level math. [/quote]

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