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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP and DH have experienced a breakdown of trust, so every disagreement starts a fight. [b]One of you can be the peacemaker[/b] and change the direction, or you can keep hustling along to divorce.

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This is such a knee-jerk post-therapy response.

Yeah, right.

Who will be the "peacemaker" PP?

I read most of this thread, and I'm sure it's not going to be the DH here!!

OP, I think your DH is on the spectrum. He probably has other issues, but his behavior sounds very spectrum-y to me.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-heart-autism/201511/married-partner-the-autism-spectrum

He may have other issues too, but being on the spectrum makes most therapy useless. You need to find a therapist specializing in NT/ASD couples.

Or get ready to leave, which it sounds like you are doing. It's tough, OP. Blessings and strength to you. 
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We did have one therapist who asked me if he was on the spectrum. Another one asked him point blank what his diagnosis was and asked to work with his therapist. Another one made him do individual therapy (with the MC) alongside the couples sessions.

Yes, we are on the fifth therapist. Several of the others were online and they just couldn’t keep him calm enough to do a session. The man now is very good and experienced with trauma, speaks his language. It’s been two months and no more yelling since we started. I am going to give it four more months. If he doesn’t have some kind of breakthrough or get a diagnosis/treatment then I will leave.[/quote]

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