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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife does this with glasses. She leaves half full water glasses all over the house and then complains that there aren't any clean ones.

About once a week I take her car keys and hide them. When she asks if I've seen them I tell her she can have them back when she collects all the glasses and puts them in the dishwasher, after she pours all the water into the dog bowl. I don't want it going to waste.

Celebrated 18 years in May.[/quote]
Did you "celebrate" tho? Those of you who assume the worst intentions are exhausting. I have ADHD and I can't imagine being married to [b]somebody who expected perfection all the time[/b]. I don't expect it of my non-ADHD DH and he doesn't expect it from me. OP could have used this as an opportunity to tease her DH, or bribe him for something fun if she brings the paper. Her DH isn't doing it because he is a jerk, he legitimately forgets and I'm sure feels bad about himself every time he does because she nags him. Relax, people. Go with grace and love.[/quote]

Picking up after yourself is 'expecting perfection'?

Huh, TIL. I thought it was just being a decent person 101.[/quote]
Yes. It is. Nobody can pick up after themselves 100% of the time, especially when raising children. I doubt it's that OP's DH doesn't ever remember anything and never picks up after himself. It's that he forgets about TP in the one bathroom. You all are miserable.

My DH leaves his socks on the floor, the sink counter is always wet — I pick them up for him and wipe the counter. I leave books out and always have three drinking glasses going — he tidies up for me if it bothers him. We are partners, not bean counters. This kind of resentment is the kind that festers into bigger things. Once you stop being kind to each other, it's over.[/quote]

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