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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like there’s some shame going on. Is there anything on his youth/childhood that might explain this?[/quote]

Op here. Honestly I really don’t think so. He has done all these things before. I think he is really just stuck in his ways at this point. And now that others mentioned it, maybe he is afraid of not being able to perform in other positions. I really don’t know.[/quote]

Dear OP, you must actually have the conversation with your DH, not with us. What is your plan to do so?[/quote]

I have brought up many times that it upsets me. But clearly I have to be more direct in my questioning. I don’t even know how to ask something like that without hurting his feelings in some way though. But I guess that’s what needs to happen.[/quote]

Hurt his feelings! He may need a slap upside his head that he is hurting your feelings. It’s time to shake him up.[/quote]

So I occasionally listen to the Sex with Emily podcast and she said something that really surprised me about many of these requests take many conversations. It’s not situation where if someone doesn’t change after the first couple conversations all is lost. The person needs to get over their shock, embarrassment, then understand what you are saying, what exactly is it that you, how do they change their mindset, then their actions etc. It was kind of eye opening to me truthfully.[/quote]

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